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No One Wants to See Your D*ck

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'One of the most important books you'll read this year ' THE NEW FEMINIST

'A bold, unapologetic exploration of modern relationships, self-image, and the complexities of navigating social media and intimacy in today's world' MARIE CLAIRE

Are women asking for it because of their outfits, routes home, profile pictures or social media posts? Or can we finally admit that there might be something wrong with masculinity in the digital world?


The rising popularity of misogynistic content and toxic masculinity influencers combined with a lack of regulation within social media has created a perfect storm. Our increasingly online world has opened women and young girls up to a whole new level of violence that follows them into their homes, schools and workplaces.


In No One Wants to See Your D*ck, women's rights campaigner Jess Davies reveals the shocking realities of this epidemic and what we can do to stop it. Covering everything from cyberflashing and deepfakes to the manosphere and catfishing, Jess offers practical advice and accessible language to help you understand what is happening online, what to do if you become a victim of it and why drastic change is needed now. Urgent and eye-opening, this is a vital toolkit for understanding and putting an end to violence against women.

Critics Review

A bold, unapologetic exploration of modern relationships, self-image, and the complexities of navigating social media and intimacy in today's world.
Marie Claire
Jess Davies, the woman you are [...] No One Wants to See Your D*ck, is a testament to her fearless advocacy for all survivors of male violence
Glamour
No One Wants to See Your D*ck is one of the most important books you'll read this year . . . This is an essential read, not just for feminists but for anyone who cares about the safety and dignity of women and girls. Davies writes with such clarity and purpose, offering space not only for anger but also for understanding.
The New Feminist
fierce but empathetic . . . This is an urgent update on toxic, misogynistic behaviour online, and Davies' personal perspective is a necessary one
Irish Independent
Necessary and unflinchingly honest. A rallying cry for women's safety online
David Challen
A needed and powerful voice in the fight against digital misogyny and violence against women and girls. No One Wants to See Your D*ck is an accessible manifesto to fight back against the digital harms facing women and girls across the globe.
Adele Walton, Online Safety Campaigner and Author of Loggin’ Off
Deeply moving, this book lays bare the reality of online abuse as well as showing us the path towards greater freedom and justice. This book should be compulsory reading in schools, in parliament and every bedroom, helping us to understand the harms of online abuse and what we can do to prevent it.
Professor Clare McGlynn, leading expert on violence against women and girls
The bible for everyone who is sick of online misogyny
LalalaletMeExplain, Dating and Relationships Educator & Best-selling Author of Block, Delete, Move On
This book has become my bible. Jess deftly tunes us into the depth of misogyny operating in plain sight across every aspect of our lives, honing our focus on the horrifying connection between digital violence and the real-world hatred women suffer
Jen Cox, author of Women Are Angry
An important read. Jess not only exposes the scale of online misogyny within the manosphere, but also offers some tangible solutions. The result is an empowering and actionable guide to the digital world.
Patsy Stevenson, award-winning gender equality campaigner
Author Jess Davies
Narrator Jess Davies
Duration 10 hours and 19 minutes
Release Date
ISBN 9781035416615
Format Audiobook
Publisher Headline
Genre Digital and information technologies: social and ethical aspects, Feminism and feminist theory, Gender studies: women and girls, Media studies: internet, digital media and society, Social discrimination and equal treatment
Availability AU, GB, IE, US

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