Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?

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What to expect

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Drawing on years of experience as a clinical psychologist, online sensation Dr Julie Smith shares all the skills you need to get through life's ups and downs.

Filled with secrets from a therapist's toolkit, this is a must-have handbook for optimising your mental health. Dr Julie's simple but expert advice and powerful coping techniques will help you stay resilient no matter what life throws your way.

Written in short, bite-sized entries, you can turn straight to the section you need depending on the challenge you're facing - and immediately find the appropriate tools to help. From managing anxiety, dealing with criticism or battling low mood, to building self-confidence, finding motivation or learning to forgive yourself, this book tackles the everyday issues that affect us all and offers easy, practical solutions that might just change your life.

© Dr Julie Smith 2022 (P) Penguin Audio 2022

Critics Review

  • Brilliant. Bite-size. Easy to understand. Easy to flick through. It’s like a reference to how you feel

    Phillip Schofield on ITV's THIS MORNING
  • This book is a goldmine. I truly treat it like a handbook now

    Stylist
  • Julie Smith is the psychology teacher you wish you’d had at school

    Evening Standard
  • It’s so engaging that it’s even led me to switch off my phone for several hours so I can read it, and in this social media-obsessed age, I don’t think I can give a bigger recommendation than that

    Telegraph
  • The book’s great. It’s real, it’s authentic . . . Very practical and very, very helpful

    Lorraine Kelly
  • Smart, insightful, and warm. Dr Julie is both the expert and wise friend we all need

    Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and co-host of the 'Dear Therapists' podcast

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