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One morning, Rebecca wakes up and realises she has turned into the wrong person. Is she really this joyous and outgoing organiser of parties, the put-upon heart of her dead husband's extended family? What happened to her quiet and serious nineteen-year-old self, and what would have happened if she'd married her college sweetheart? Can someone ever recover the person they've left behind?

Critics Review

Beautifully observed... Effortlessly brilliant
Daily Telegraph
Like all great writers, Tyler creates her own world...she is that rare being: a writer so good that she lets you forget it. If you're one of the few who's yet to discover her, don't waste any more time: this ranks among her best
Daily Mail
Superb... Beautifully conceived, masterfully executed... Out of the emotional confusions spawned by dislocated, dysfunctional families, Anne Tyler has produced - yet again - a scintillating comedy of manners
Sunday Telegraph
Her touch, whether comic, wry or tragic, is as subtle as goose down... An insight bordering on genius... Tyler, of the fresh, almost conversational prose, sharp dialogue and all too much human truth, really is one of the wisest and most perceptive observers crafting fiction as life
Irish Times
One of her very best
Mail on Sunday
Author Anne Tyler
Narrator Blair Brown
Duration 8 hours and 57 minutes
Release Date
ISBN 9781473512733
Format Audiobook
Publisher Random House
Genre Contemporary lifestyle fiction, Family life fiction, Modern and contemporary fiction, Narrative theme: Interior life
Availability AU, GB, IE

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