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The Non-Monogamy Playbook

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The Non-Monogamy Playbook is the handbook for anyone curious about consensual non-monogamy: polyamory and open relationships.

This is a practical, joyful guide to the rules of non-traditional relationships. It uncovers the long history of non-monogamy, and explores why society today still favours monogamous, heteronormative relationships as gold standard.

Ruby's weaves in her own relationship learnings with humour and empathy, and offers empowering tools for dealing with the complexities - and joys - of polyamory. She provides expert but sisterly advice on setting boundaries and cultivating self-compassion, as well as ways to navigate the myriad practical considerations of sustaining multiple relationships.

The Non-Monogamy Playbook shows us that there's joy in having multiple people in your life (platonic, sexy, romantic), but with each connection there is added vulnerability. This is the ultimate modern guide to non-monogamy, helping you create confident, healthy relationships.

© Ruby Rare 2025 (P) Penguin Audio 2025

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Book 5.0
Narration 5.0
Author Ruby Rare
Narrator Ruby Rare
Duration 7 hours and 54 minutes
Release Date
ISBN 9781529959772
Format Audiobook
Publisher Ebury Publishing
Genre Non-monogamy / Polyamorous relationships: advice, topics and issues, Self-help, personal development and practical advice, Sex and sexuality: advice and issues
Availability AU, GB, IE, US
Rating
5.0 (1 review)
Narration
5.0 (1 review)

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