Let's Talk About Money

Let's Talk about Money is a well-researched and needed guidebook for couples, more than half of whom consider themselves financially incompatible. Money problems often lead to breakups and divorce. Talking about money is laden with negative emotions and beliefs. Terry's newest book will help couples overcome these obstacles, learn to understand themselves and each other, and better communicate about managing money.

Author of Codependency for Dummies; Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist, and Conquering Shame and Codependency

If you're putting off talking about money, I guarantee it's because you know that you have different attitudes about finances and that's going to end in recriminations, upset and strife. But you're not alone, most couples fall into the 'spender' and 'saver' dynamic and it's easy to think there is no middle ground. Fortunately, Terry Gaspard has lots of practical tools from her years working with couples which will help you find an 'us against the problem' mindset.

Marital therapist, author of I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You, and host of "The Meaningful Life" podcast

Let's Talk about Money is a practical, well written book that gives couples the tools they need to have lower conflict and less tension about money. Financial issues can take a toll on relationships and money is one of the leading sources of arguments among couples. Using examples from interviews, Terry Gaspard helps couples learn to communicate more effectively and troubleshoot the challenges of finances. I highly recommend it!

Distinguished Professor, Therapist, and author of 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great

As a couples therapist, I know firsthand how often money becomes the silent third partner in a relationship—shaping choices, fueling arguments, and straining intimacy. In Let’s Talk About Money, Terry Gaspard brings compassion, clinical wisdom, and practical strategies to one of the most emotionally charged topics couples face. With relatable stories, clear tools, and a deep understanding of the beliefs and histories that drive financial conflict, this book helps partners move from blame and avoidance to collaboration and trust. Whether you’re struggling with debt, different spending styles, or simply avoiding money talks altogether, this book is an invaluable guide to building financial intimacy and strengthening your relationship. Every couple should read it.

Psychologist and author of Rules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How to Heal the Conflict